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PLEASE HELP! How Do I Tell My Fiance That I'm Pregnant for My Ex

Hi VibeNaija!
I am a 23-year-old girl, about to marry a man I truly love. About five years ago, I ended  a quite painful relationship, and my husband-to-be helped me to get over it. We started as friends, but gradually fell in love and grew to appreciate one another. Eventually, he proposed to me and I gladly agreed to be his wife.

Our wedding's due in September. We haven't had sex so as to consummate our relationship on our first night together. Although neither I nor him are virgins, we agreed to wait until after our marriage.
All was going well, until I ran into my ex about two months ago. Long story short, we met up, had a few drinks and ended up in his apartment. Recently, I found out I'm pregnant. Neither I nor my ex want to continue our affair, and I feel terribly guilty.
The million naira question is: do I tell my fiancee of my one-night stand, or do I seduce him and make it appear the baby is his?
Please, What should i do???



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9 comments:

  1. Tell him and receive your doom

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  2. abort it ,don't give innocents guy work,that is why ,said trust no woman

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  3. Better go for abortion and beg GOd for forgiveness. Even if u seduce him to make love to u n him eventually fall, u will put to bed after seven months which is nt feasible. The man will certainly kn at dat point that he was nt responsible for dat pregnancy. UNFAITHFULNESS huh

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  4. browse de answer...........

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  5. d bible said,say d truth n d truth shal set u fre,pray n tel him d truth,n God wi c u true .

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  6. Jst tell him

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  7. i will advice u tell him and let him now it was a mistake, if u dont tell him now,he will get to know about it in future,i ve a frnd who went tru similar problem,if not for God and intervention of relatives she wud ve thrown out of her matrimonial home....see if dat guy is urs he will forgive u....as for the baby pls dont abort the baby becos dat may be the only baby u will have in life

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  8. Tell him a truth and nothing is better than a truth. I know it will be difficult to him to forgive you my dear, but it's the best.

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  9. keeping it from him will make matters worse and telling him will give him a clue of the unfaithful woman he is going in for. tell him so that he can be able to move on with his life and not get stuck to your shameless and worthless tricks of love!!!

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