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HELP!! I Enjoy My Sugar Daddy More Than My Fiancee

Dear VibeNaija!
Please Help me Post This and Hide My Identity. I don't want to bore you and your blog readers with a long story, so let me just try and go straight to the point of my headache. My problem is between a young guy and an advance man.
I have this guy I've been dating for like two years now and he works in a bank here in Lagos but I cant seem to remember the last time he gave me any reasonable money. He always complain that his salary is small and
even when he comes to my house and we make love, he doesn't last, he always rush the séx.

He can't satisfy a woman in bed, all he knows how to do is gbu gbu, gba gba and that's all...

But I met this advance man last October who is married with just two children. He said he loves his wife and do take care of her but he needs me on the side. I accepted and I've been enjoying him since then.

He gives me enough money and, more importantly, he makes love to me in a special way not like that my rush rush boyfriend. We even travel to Abuja together three weeks ago and he proposed to buy a house for me to stay in Abuja and forget about my small business and poor boyfriend in Lagos.

Please, sincerely, what do you guys think I should do? Should I dump my boyfriend and move on?


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23 comments:

  1. Its up 2 u bt deep down ur heart u already knw wt 2do

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  2. IF NA MONEYMAKE KO I BEG TING B4 U DO AM MY SISTER.

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  3. its up to u if ur not comfortable wth dis young boy leave him aln dere bcz u r already knw ideed wat u want u cn move on for de oppotunity

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  4. D choice is urs, u no wat u wnt so go for it, bt dating a married man u no d consequences forget money matter.

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  5. sure gurl your sugar daddy if he has no other wife go ahead and marry him cos he gonna take care of you forever himself or yourself.

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  6. So will another women take away your husband if at-all u will one day decide to settle down. Big fool

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  7. Your after maney and not love that is y you think uour boy friend is not sweet

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  8. Go for money coz is what you have been looking for...

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  9. Move on with your life. If you loved your boyfriend you could enjoy his way of making love and appreciate his little money. Just help him by leaving him alone.

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  10. Hmm my sis is not opportunity o. That isvd way of distruction
    If you leave ur fiance what if is the bone on of your bone nko
    Maybe is the person God as apointed for u. Bcos of house think deeply dont
    Distroyed another person house o. If ur fi:ance is not good in bed u can help him yes
    And if his not rich now is matter of time o thinkkkkkkkkkk

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  11. honestly hunny... the young boy might just need some training but if he truely doesnt make you happy tell him. dont drag him along because once he finds out its surely going to hurt his self-steem... but with the older man. are you ever truely going to be 100% happy. yes he gives you material things like money and good sex but eventually your going to want someone there every night by your side... kids?? you know hes married do you think hes actually going to give up his kids and wife to come be with you? you gotta look at it from both situations yes the older man makes you happy now but what happens when your ready to take the next step. are you truely going to be happy on the side for the rest of your life?

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  12. Stop Being An Idiot... Appreciate The Little U Have With U're Boy Frnd....Y Go And Destroy The Suger D'dy's Marriage. Remember God Hates That.

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  13. no money no romance, women are just hating on you, go girl goooooo go for the money n house

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  14. You have a very low metality. Do you think the young boy can not be rich in nearest future.

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  15. You have a very low metality, do you think the young boy can not be rich in the nearest future.

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  16. You have a very low metality. Do you think the young boy can not be rich in nearest future.

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  17. Think about it, what u call happiness for the now is regret tomorrow. The golden rule is do unto others as wish them to do unto u. The happiness you've been offered in only for a moment. on the long run mark my word, the only thing it will bring u is pain. You only envisage the short- comings, you didn't consider what life holds for u on the long run. Life is too short to think small. Learn from other people's experience.

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  18. What goes around comes around n vice versa. Have you thought of the man's children? How will you feel if this same thing is being done to you when you get married have you thought about that also? The advanced man is committing adultery if he truly loves his wife n kids he won't have the cause to look for a side chick. My dear its not all about the money because its not all that glitters that is gold do you know if he's using your glory and paying you for that its better for you to retrace your steps. If you love you bf then go back to him and help him out in order to satisfy you talk to him him about it and most importantly prayer is the key.

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  19. Money is not everything....remember those who love for ever not all about money.....if your poor guy is not doing the thing very well....tell him to improve on that side....because that one you need am well well about advise you dont follow money because you dont know how the man made his money and if the rich man wife catch you an fire ooooo or acids....so be careful

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  20. if u dnt run away frm dat relationship with sugar dady,u will be a big fool bt for u to think of working away frm ur bfriend u are d biggest fool among fools.wyy cnt u teach him exactly how u want him on bed, if not dat poverty is smelling in ur blood and u need cleancing by taking another womans husband..............be wise gul

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  21. if your bf is poor in pocket & bed, then i advise that u shd nt starve yourself for life.sexual satisfaction is important in any relationship.go ahead and become a second wife

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  22. gal u have to be wise, Remember that d harvest will always be greater than the seed, So whatsoever you sow that's what u will reap, Vanity upon Vanity all is Vanity, l will advise you not to date that married man b/cos is a sin in the eyes of God. Repent so that God will see you through. even u did not go back to that your X boyfriend, keep yourself holy you will see that one day God will surprise you.

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  23. There' is God oooooo chai chai ther' is God oooooo chaiii

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