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My Boyfriend is Jobless and I'm Tired Of Being His Lover, Should i Break Up?

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Help Me share this to Your readers as i need urgent and objective replies.
How long can a woman wait for her man to get good job so he can settle down and marry her? I have been dating my current boyfriend since we met in NYSC camp, Batch A in 2010. We met while registering at the camp as he helped me with my luggage. He is sweet and caring. To say the truth, He is a gentle man, and every girl’s dream. After our service year, I was retained in the law firm where I served as a lawyer. However, He wasn’t retained and He has been looking for a job since we concluded NYSC. He keeps reassuring me that all would be fine and that as soon as he gets a good job, He would make all necessary arrangements and we would get married and be settled. Now, this is 2014, and he doesn’t have a job yet. Tee, I don’t know if i can wait any longer. I can’t count the number of clients that has asked for my hand in marriage. I have been rejecting their offer because of my boyfriend Godwin. Now, I’m thinking of breaking up with him and accepting the proposal of one of these men. I am a woman, and not getting any younger. I would be 29 by June this year. What do you think? Should i go ahead with the break up?

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19 comments:

  1. u should go there and live with him coz u a job that u can eat before he get a job

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  2. You are the evil that holds him not to get a job since then, you pretend to love him but in the other way round you with hold all his blessing, pack yourself and leave the road for him so that his bless that you hanged since will come to him.

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  3. Well, as for me, I think you should still wait a little, because sometimes it is when you are about giving up that the result comes, I believe your boyfriend will surely get a job. Be strong

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  4. My sister! I advice u shud b more prayer for ur boyfrnd rather than leaving him now dat he needs u most! Do u think going to start anoda r/ship now s going to b easy? Plz my dear,d devil u ve seen s more dan d Angel u re yet 2c! Be patient nd prayerful! God bless u

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    1. u have said it all

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    2. true talk......

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    3. well,if indeed u love him,and u know that he is ur soul mate,do nt quit.If at all u will,let it not be,becoz of his inability,to get a job now.U never can tell,what God has in stock,for him.Now,dis myt sound funny,but if ur earnings for now,can sustain both of u,i wld suggest,u go along with d marriage.Its not how,elaborate ur wedding is,dat matters.Its how well,u go in it.After all,princes diana's wedding,was nd is still,d best in d world,but dn't last for 3wks.All i am saying,is dat there are allot of blessings,tied to marriage,dat until u go into it,u will never experience such blessings,nd,breakthrough.Dnt let money or job issue,be ur deciding factor,for marriage.Moreover be prayerful,nd any decision u take,should be what u re led,to do.If its urs,u wld know.If nt,u wld know.But lyk i said,let not money,or job,decide dat.[what if u live nd dat split moment d miracle happens do u think he wld receive u back?].

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  5. Follow your heart but be prayerful

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  6. I narrated my problem to High Priest Ogudugu about how my ex Husband left me and my two kids and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company

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  7. my dear sister you have had it all, my suggestion, the truth is if you truly love him first (find out if he's truly the man God want for you,) how you can find out ( go in to serious prayer fast and do midnight prayer ask God to open your eye tell God the kind of sign you want) and then go on and call God meet some great men of God to help you pray tell God to open every closed door against him so that he can get good a job and marry you, but be patient, i am also going to be 29 by July i am not married but i believe very soon i will marry.

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  8. YOU ALREADY LOOK LIKE AJEGULE ASHAWO,YOU CAN GO TO HELL !GOOD ONE THAT IS RESERVED BY GOD FOR HIM WILL BE HIS WIFE WHEN TIME IS RIPE'IF U WERE RESPONSIBLE AND A LAWYER WHY DRESS LIKE WHORE? WAKA AS UR FATHER SATAN HAS DIRECTED U ,U'RE NOT GOOD N WOULD NEVER BE A WIFE TALKLESS OF A GOOD ONE!! GO N CONTINUE FUCKING UR BOSS THAT RETAINED U IN THAT CULT U CALL JOB OK.

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  9. all of you talking about love spell and give emails are 419, theives

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  10. All of u r talking shit wht is spell plz stop talking abt diabolical nonsense pray to ur God he is the only one to make all ur impossibilities possible.i bet u all soon u will face the consequences of this ur spells whteva.

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  11. Woow!its interesting but my advice to u my sis,still b patient not easy to break up a r/ship success ii come surprisingly

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  12. You loved him for a good job or for something else? If you truely love him, you should remain very patient.

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  13. No my sister just keep your fingers cross, pray and have the faith when you. Also help him find a job, God will listen to you and see your effort and He will give your heart requrest. Cause faith with out work is a dead faith, say the Bible.

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  14. well my sister am a Nigerian but am sending my contribution from Scandinevia city, Malmo, Sweden. I will boldly advise u to wait and keep praying for God to open doors for him. never u mind men because the will glans your hears with sweet stories I love u or I will marry u if u give the a chance the will suck the whole blood from u. since he is graduate remember that he as a future so one day he story shall change. beside if u truly love him you can package him as well. never u wash your dirty linen outside. please.

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