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My Husband Refuses to Make Love To Me

Hello VibeNaija!
This January made it one year that my hubby has touched and made love to me last, And that was when i was 8months pregnant. Now, the baby is 11months old, though am still breastfeeding and My husband's belief is that am not healed down there. Although, The delivery of My child was successful, no operation, no tear. Please My People, how can i make the move since my hubsband has refused to touch me. I always feel
horny and i dont want to mastubate nor fornicate when i have my own husband. Is he cheating on Me? Can a man go for almost a year without Making Love?
Please what Should i do?



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43 comments:

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  2. I really hate to sound suspicious but as a married man like your husband, I guess something is not right somewhere and unfortunately he seems not to be explaining to you. I can't imagine him going over a year plus now without being sensitive to your personal feelings even if he can make do without having it. Truth is, it is his duty to provide for you both physically and emotionally, no matter how good he has been to you in other areas, he should realize that if your emotional welfare is ignored; he is not being fair to you. I really want to encourage you to make it known to him that you are okay and can make love with him now.

    If he fails to understand your concern then, believe it or not he is cheating on you and just using flimsy excuses to calm you down. Please above all pray about this because some guys might be somewhat reluctant in making love with an after 1 woman and this includes their lawful wife. Only prayer can bring them back. I know what I am saying ohh...

    I feel your pains....

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  3. Your husband is cheating on you is not possible for a man not to touch his wife a whole,make the move and see his reactions good luck.

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    1. Pls be more prayerful something mighty be wrong somewhere.

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    2. Perhaps he is need of TLC so, do make low profile subtle moves by you first of all. TLC tender loving care, may the good Lord bless you & the family!!!

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  4. There is a problem the baby might not be his!

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  5. Pls pray seriously something has gone wrong

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  6. B4 u conclude on anytin, madam sit one on one wt him n let him knw wht ur intensions are, if he refuses to give to you then he is cheating on you... N d only solution to that prob is prayers

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  7. a real man can't go a year without making love. He's cheating.

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  8. Prayerful approach to find out d reason yy.if u re nt satisfied,go to God in prayers.it is not possible 2 abstain for dat long

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  9. I PRAY THAT TO THE ALL MYTHY GOD TO RESTORE YOUR JOIE YR HAPPENESS IN JESUS NAME AMEN

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  10. I pray that the God all mygthy will restore back yr happiness in jesus name

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  11. A true African woman will not have any sexual activities with her husband after giving birth and breastfeeding her child for one year six months. so my young lady I want you to waiting until you stop breastfeeding your child. some of us men are just don't like the breast milk, as such we stay away from our wives during that time..

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    1. nonsensical talk....

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  12. May be he has been contacted with disease so he don't want to share it with you

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  13. It is very possible for a man to stay for more than one year, but in this case u need to let your man know your feelings. Let me use myself as a lesson to you, when my wife gave birth to my first son, I though I can not come near her until after one year, but through discussion it was made known to me that even within one mont we are ok if we can use protective items so that the child will not be affected.

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  14. you need GOD INTERVENTION.

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  15. Swthrt something is wrong somewhere, just pray ur husband has not contracted d deadly disease and is abstaining from sex with u bcoz he don't want u to be a carrier, 2 me datz d only reason that can make a man not to touch hiz wife, even if someone out there is satisfying him trust me men don't get satisfied with tinz lyk dat. Something z definitely wrong, babe investigate on ur hubby. May god help u

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  16. Something is wrong somewhere, u nid to really sort it out with ur husband and settle it, above all pray to God for a permanent solution

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  17. two things can cause a change prayers and communication in patience till u see a change

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  18. I think you.need to have a suprise dinner with some.vine and candle light and comunicate,,,,,,talk about it ,,,hopefully he will.let u.in

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  19. my dear, i feel ur pain coz i share it ..prayer is the key my dear lady.

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  20. my dear, i feel ur pain coz i share it ..prayer is the key my dear lady.

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  21. Hmmmm I smell a rat sis,I dnt think that man is being truthful to u as his wife,try to investigat.above all pray for God`s guidance.

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  22. it is possible for a man to go without sex for a year depending on what he is going through. try dressing on sexy outfit and make a move, he will surely respond or at least tell you what the problem is. good luck

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  23. it is possible for a man to go without sex for a year depending on what he is going through, my advice is you try dressing on sexy outfit and try to approach him for love making or some of the things that turns him on, at least he should be able to tell you why if he refuses. good luck.

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  24. Only stupid excuses for this man. A whole year! Something not right with him.

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  25. Find out if he is a gay now cuz most time this is what causes a man nt to touch dem wife in a yea. Some times they married for cover up

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  26. Yes sister good to hear your thoughts the lord will surely blessed you your joy talk together he will see reasons

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  27. Might somethings u have said! Nagging! Ur appearance! Letting urself go after da baby came! Bitching! R not good n bed. Dont have to b cheating all da time! Ask him! & b able to handle what he tells u! Dont hold it against him! Let him speak freely! Most women dont see themselves as being da one n da wrong! But a real woman will admit & correct! If he's ur KING!!!!

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  28. So many options involve, neither a gay or having someone else. Meanwhile pray to God for restoration.

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  29. My sister ur husband might be cheating on u that is why , u need to pray.







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  30. Are you sure his manhood is still functioning?

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  31. U are waiting for him to touch u, dey there until dey collect ur husband frm u

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    1. U touch him he is ur husband

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  32. This happened to me many many years ago. But it wasn't because I had just had a baby. We had a lot of misunderstandings and that was his reason for not making love to me. We slept in the same matrimonial bed and he didn't touch me for 3 years. I later found out by listening to one of his phone calls that he was gay. We ended up seperating and he died a year later

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  33. My dear that is flemxy excuse he is definitely cheating on u commiting adultry so pray for good intervention in ur marriage

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  34. U touch him madam

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