Popular actress, Genevieve Nnaji is over 35yrs old and she is yet to
get married. The problem is obvious,
most Naija men don't like excess
baggages. It's ok if you've had over 10 boyfriends before a Naja guy
meets you, so long as their his nothing to show. But to many Nigerian
men, if you've had just one boyfriend and it led to pregnancy and a
baby, then your case is different, VIBENAIJA observed.
This seems to be what Genevieve is suffering. The babe wants any man interested in her to forgive her:
This seems to be what Genevieve is suffering. The babe wants any man interested in her to forgive her:
“As for marriage, it’s every woman’s
dream to get married. We can’t lie to ourselves. I do want to get
married but overtime I have had opportunities to get married but I
realize getting married is not actually the problem. The problem is
finding someone you are compatible with because...
"I’m born Catholic, I’m raised
Catholic, I don’t believe in divorce. If I get married, I really want to
stay married and staying married is not an easy thing. It means you are
completely in tune with your partner. It means you’ve found your soul
mate because you’ll have to be able to stand a lot of disappointments
that would definitely come but then again you have to learn to forgive.
"For me, before I choose a partner I
have to ask myself if this is the kind of person I would be willing to
forgive no matter what when the time comes. If the answer is no, then
that person is wrong for me. That person is not the person you want to
get married to. If you know you can look into someone’s eyes and say
yes, this is the most you can do to me. If you actually cheat on me the
first time, I can find it in my heart to forgive you. If you can answer
that question honestly and truthfully to yourself then you’ll know if
that person is your partner or not.
"So compatibility is the word aside
from the physical attributes that have to go with it. I need to be
comfortable because I’m a woman and I’m used to a certain lifestyle.”
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